Argue Less and Connect More: Free Relationship Class at AWPC
Maintaining a good relationship with your partner can be challenging. Would you like to argue less and understand one another more?
Another Way Pregnancy Center (AWPC) offers research-driven, proven relationship education classes to couples, at no cost! Get practical help reducing the intensity of your communication problems and increasing satisfaction in your relationships.
Researchers spent hours watching and listening to couples argue. They identified four main negative communication patterns that lead to marital breakdown and distress: escalation, invalidation, avoidance and negative interpretations.
Students in the PREPR relationship education class offered at AWPC learn communication techniques to interrupt these negative patterns and replace them with positive ones.
When asked which technique they most used, one student who had completed the program said, "The speaker-listener technique - I love it and use it multiple times per week!" Another student said, "It was good because as an engaged couple, we were asked to talk about topics in detail that we hadn't yet discussed.”
In addition to practical skills, the class addresses some underlying factors that can contribute to discord, such as: personality differences, hidden issues like love or control, and unrealistic expectations.
"I like to start the first class session outlining the topics we'll cover and ask the participants which topic they think they can personally benefit from the most," says instructor Jeni Huggins. "That way they know right off the bat there is something for them in the class."
“ The speaker-listener technique - I love it and use it multiple times per week! ”
Although women are most often the ones to pursue taking the relationship education class, oftentimes men appreciate the class and say, "it works, so I like it."
"I see many couples who have a child together, yet are not fully committed to one another, largely because their communication problems keep them from thinking they could make it together. So often after completing the class, the couple is able to relax and say, ‘We can do this.’ I LOVE it when they announce an engagement or get married shortly after the class," says Huggins.
What are some takeaways that students appreciate?
Don't assume (the worst)
Date night - keep it light! No discussing issues while on a date.
The speaker-listener technique is something I can use, not just at home, but everywhere!
I finally feel understood
The class is five to six sessions, lasting about an hour each. Holding the class weekly keeps the momentum going and allows new patterns to be established. Homework entails practicing the skills taught each week.
Students are able to keep the class workbook, A Lasting Promise - Christian PREPR for Couples (co-authored by Stanley, Trathen, and McCain), which offers a wealth of information that can serve as a reference for years to come.
Make an investment in your relationship that will pay off for years to come. Call or text (248) 471-5858 to sign up for the AWPC Communication Class.
For further information on handling conflict, dealing with core issues and relationship enhancement, read "Fighting for Your Marriage: Positive Steps for Preventing Divorce and Preserving a Lasting Love" by Markman, Stanley and Blumberg.
